Singers for Funerals

_At a funeral service last week, we were reminded of the generation gaps between those brought up singing traditional hymns at school or in church, and those who probably didn't sing them at all. The choices seemed very 'safe' - All Things Bright and Beautiful, and Onwards Christian Soldiers, yet the latter caused the chapel to go a little quiet....

As our soloist Kirsty sang through the verses, the problem became apparent - it's a very LOW hymn for ladies (and some gents), gravelling around on bottom Cs at the start of the repeated chorus. As a mezzo with a good bottom (if you pardon the expression), Kirsty had no problem, but it reminded us that sometimes a higher key might suit a congregation of mixed ages, where those who don't know it need to be able to grasp the tune quickly, and then sing it.

However, it wasn't the hymns that finally let the mourners find their voices, it was the inspired choice of a medley of the deceased's favourite songs at the end of the service, starting with the music hall classic "Enery the Eight I Am".

It was a fantastic moment when the entire chapel burst into song, word perfect, and smiles and tears of remembered happinesses breaking out all round. It was definitely one of the best moments in a funeral we've seen, and a classic example of how the right choice of music can send a congregation home with a smile.

And the family were pleased too:

"Just a short note to say a very, very big thank you. The service that you provided was excellent, and all the family were so happy with the singing, and your professionalism."

In their recent report, the Cooperative Funeralcare reported that:

"If dress and decoration is the most visible sign of change, then choice of music is the most audible. Our study reveals that religious music is on the decline. Many people now express a preference for personal favourites or contemporary songs. Often the music chosen by the family – or specified by the person to be played at their funeral – is light-hearted."

However, the report also says that 67% of its funeral are still traditional, led by a minister. And, within the 21% classified as contemporary, hymns still often feature in the order of service. So, that's still a lot of funerals where hymns play an important part, and increasingly we're being asked to lead the hymn singing at services.

This is probably for two reasons; mainly that not everyone feels like singing at a funeral, and also, they may not know the tune. At Singers for Funerals, we make sure we learn any new hymns before the service, so when we lead the hymn singing, we can sing the tune with confidence, and others can follow. We admit, we've had to learn a few new hymns, and we've also discovered new words to old favourites.

So, we've set up www.songsforfunerals.co.uk, where anyone can hear hymns sung or played, and find hymn lyrics for service sheets as required. And every time we sing a hymn new to us, we put it on the site too!

http://www.songsforfunerals.co.uk